Like most adolescents, I had no idea what I wanted to do when I “grew up!” I did know however, that I did not want a job that involved “manual labor! I figured this out while visiting my mother one hot summer in Seymour, Indiana. My mom and step-father lived on a few acres, which was surrounded with a wooden horse fence. My step-father reasoned that if he forced me to paint this horse fence with a little paintbrush and some tar, I would so detest manual labor that I would grow up to be a doctor or lawyer or such! Well, his plan worked (sort of – more on this in a later post). As they wished, I graduated from high school and entered college where I proceeded to major in criminal justice.
I quickly realized that if I wanted to make any money at all, I had to go to law school (prison guards and police officers don’t make very much). And so, that’s exactly what I did. For me, law school was a turning point in my life. I always figured I was fairly smart, but I never really applied myself. Well, in law school, you have no choice but apply yourself. For the first time in my life I was really tested. The workload was enormous…the amount of reading, copious. By the time I was done, I felt like a different person. Think of it like boot camp for your mind. I began thinking on a whole other level. I was more analytical, and to my surprise creative!
After law school, I did what most law school graduates do, I took the bar exam and got a job practicing law in a private practice. You would think that I would be happy right? I had achieved everything that I had set out to do. I persevered through seven years of school (all while being married I might add), and attained a coveted place among the four pillar professions. But something wasn’t right…I wasn’t happy. Soon after my employment as an associate attorney I began reading biographies of leading entrepreneurs. One of the earliest of which was Sharing the Wealth: My Story, by Alex Spanos. After reading this book, something happened inside of me. It was like a lightbulb went off or something. I became fascinated with this idea that you could take a risk, dare to dream, and build something of lasting importance. And you could do all of this while having fun! I had always been somewhat introspective, but after law school and after I began reading stories of successful entrepreneurs I began wondering what my place was in this world. I began asking myself what the limits of my human potential were?
And so, with the switch now “ON,” I set out determined to find my calling…my business. I began keeping a journal of business ideas (someday, after I’ve made it, I’ll share some of them with you…pretty funny stuff). Some were good, some were not; but all were creative. This was when I really began to realize that I was a creative person. For the first time in my life I thought of myself as creative – and I thrived on it! And then, it happened…my “aha moment!” I have already written on this a bit in the past, so I’ll leave it for a later post. Until then, keep…
Swimming against the tide,
Capt. Tommy
Before I pick up the Spanos book, what’s the general idea/theme?
More than just a story of his life, it’s a story of how one decision forever altered his destiny. What I loved about it was that he was just an ordinary man that went on to do extraordinary things.
Don’t kill the messenger though. Remember, this isn’t Oprah’s book club!